It is just like your room to be the birthplace of needed grace and true conflict.

That is where grace is needed from God. Conflict and pain, lack of understanding and difficulty on all sides and there, God lends His grace. That is certainly where grace is born. In the darkness of our sinful estate is where grace is born. God sends and patches our darkness and lights our path and crushes our pride and grants His power, when we can't depend on any other, there is God. No, mother can't handle it, that is certain. No, father can't carry us, positively. Only God can handle the trouble that arises. Foes assail, friends disappoint us and we are cast aside, but not cast off from God's presence. Only He is a friend unfailing. I hope you always remember that.